#IamHumanAF

October 9, 2016

taking selfies is dressing rooms, Human

Hi! I’m Marie Ingrisano Isner and I am HumanAF.

Yeah, you read that right.

I hold (and have held) a lot of titles in my life: student, rebel, employee, wife, mother, entrepreneur, president, member, fattest girl in the room, fittest girl in the room – but they are all under the umbrella of HUMAN.

I’m not out to be the next Oprah, I’m just a mom on a mission to inspire people to their greatness.

“Just like you, my super weakness is my super power… I’m human. Human AF.” –Peta Kelly  This quote really resonated with me.

I preach practicing self-care and being kind to yourself, but some days my greatest achievement is not gagging when I see myself in the mirror.  Human.

I get up in front of groups of people and share my story very candidly, but the noise in my own head sometimes keeps me from admitting how hard I have struggled to be 183lbs (which for some is a gross weight to be, but for me, it’s an improvement).  Human.

After picture outtakes that are hard to look at


I’m that annoying patron who asks the waiter about the cheese & gluten content of every dish before ordering, but I’ll eat a sleeve of Ritz crackers laying in bed watching TV if I’ve had a rough day. Human.

I left a corporate job and started my own business from scratch 3 years ago and built it into a full time income, but I’ve been fired from a few embarrassing places like an eye glass store, a movie theatre, and a commercial building in NY. Human.

I work on my personal development every day and remind myself over and over not everything “is about me”, but if a salesperson in a store ignores me I go all Brooklyn on their ass in 10 seconds.  Human.


I get annoyed when people are too focused on their phones walking down a busy NYC street, but some days I’ll piss away an hour looking at nonsense on IMDB about Mark Ruffalo just because.  Human.

He made a hashtag out of what I said #swoon


I work so hard to “meet people where they are” and not enforce my standards on everyone I meet, but I have no tolerance for people who are checked out and asking questions that have already been answered. Human.

I wrote a cookbook and self-published it for fun, because I love home cooked meals, but some days I eat prosciutto out of the package for dinner. Human.

I’m so excited to realize my vision and launch all the new projects I’m working on and I never forget how grateful I am to have these opportunities, but some days I hear a “no” from someone or a criticism of my business and I want to cry and run back to doing make-overs at Lord and Taylor for my job.  Human.

Like I said, I’m not out to be Oprah, just a regular person who can make an impact.  I’m the female, Italian, 21st century George Bailey, if you will.

Reminding myself that I’m human, when magazines and movie stars all look air-brushed, perfect and without any stretchmarks makes me feel better, because I am HUMAN and not a 2 dimensional perfect image (and neither are they, btw).


If I hide the part of my life that’s difficult and challenging, I’m pretending to be something I’m not, which is, Human.

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So to remind yourself, in the words of Liz Gilbert, “embrace the glorious mess that you are.”  Embrace it, love it, and bless it.  It’s you, and you’re HUMAN AF.

So, hi everyone! I am Marie and I am totally and completely Human AF.

Thanks to Peta Kelly for inspiring  this post!

#IamHumanAF #LightYourselfOnFire #ParentsPassionProject

You guys, I cooked a bunch this week, deep cleansed, had a cold, had several appointments, took my kid to karate TWICE, and baked muffins.  Dude, I’m exhausted and it’s only Wednesday.  The new routine of school and not having summer as an excuse to blow off cooking is like a whole new world.  Every year I make this transition but it is always a challenge.  So I salute all you moms and dads out there working on packing your kids lunch box and still getting yourself to the gym.  It’s hard, it’s so annoyingly hard!

Sometimes, it’s also hard for me to write a blog every week because I’m outta shit to say.   That’s kinda how this “healthy living” thing goes.  You fall into a routine and it’s not super exciting all the time.  You just keeping clicking along.  And that’s me this week.  I’m keeping my head above water and I’m chugging along with all my to-dos (eat, sleep, workout, pack the lunchbox).

Did I mention I saw “Something Rotten” on Broadway this week too?

Week 18 Results

Weight: 185.2 (-12 since start, -3.6 change since last week)

Cleanse days completed this week: 2

Workouts: 1

Non-Scale Victory:  Going down a size in clothes is so rewarding I can’t even tell you.  My skirts that are a size large are a little big and my jeans that are size 14 are definitely too big.  I’ve been on the other end of this (when the sizes go up) and it’s not fun to have to go to the store for bigger clothes.  I have been selling my bigger clothes on ebay for practically nothing just hoping that someone else can use them since they are in great shape.  Maybe they are going down a size too and need new clothes 🙂

What I want to be acknowledged for this week:  This week I started my final course in the Curriculum for Living and came up with an idea for a kick-ass project called #ParentsPassionProject.  Check out my video launching the idea!

Book I am reading this week: Love Louder, by Preston Smiles

Song that inspired this week’s title: It’s Hard to be the Bard, from Something Rotten

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