#IamHumanAF

October 9, 2016

taking selfies is dressing rooms, Human

Hi! I’m Marie Ingrisano Isner and I am HumanAF.

Yeah, you read that right.

I hold (and have held) a lot of titles in my life: student, rebel, employee, wife, mother, entrepreneur, president, member, fattest girl in the room, fittest girl in the room – but they are all under the umbrella of HUMAN.

I’m not out to be the next Oprah, I’m just a mom on a mission to inspire people to their greatness.

“Just like you, my super weakness is my super power… I’m human. Human AF.” –Peta Kelly  This quote really resonated with me.

I preach practicing self-care and being kind to yourself, but some days my greatest achievement is not gagging when I see myself in the mirror.  Human.

I get up in front of groups of people and share my story very candidly, but the noise in my own head sometimes keeps me from admitting how hard I have struggled to be 183lbs (which for some is a gross weight to be, but for me, it’s an improvement).  Human.

After picture outtakes that are hard to look at


I’m that annoying patron who asks the waiter about the cheese & gluten content of every dish before ordering, but I’ll eat a sleeve of Ritz crackers laying in bed watching TV if I’ve had a rough day. Human.

I left a corporate job and started my own business from scratch 3 years ago and built it into a full time income, but I’ve been fired from a few embarrassing places like an eye glass store, a movie theatre, and a commercial building in NY. Human.

I work on my personal development every day and remind myself over and over not everything “is about me”, but if a salesperson in a store ignores me I go all Brooklyn on their ass in 10 seconds.  Human.


I get annoyed when people are too focused on their phones walking down a busy NYC street, but some days I’ll piss away an hour looking at nonsense on IMDB about Mark Ruffalo just because.  Human.

He made a hashtag out of what I said #swoon


I work so hard to “meet people where they are” and not enforce my standards on everyone I meet, but I have no tolerance for people who are checked out and asking questions that have already been answered. Human.

I wrote a cookbook and self-published it for fun, because I love home cooked meals, but some days I eat prosciutto out of the package for dinner. Human.

I’m so excited to realize my vision and launch all the new projects I’m working on and I never forget how grateful I am to have these opportunities, but some days I hear a “no” from someone or a criticism of my business and I want to cry and run back to doing make-overs at Lord and Taylor for my job.  Human.

Like I said, I’m not out to be Oprah, just a regular person who can make an impact.  I’m the female, Italian, 21st century George Bailey, if you will.

Reminding myself that I’m human, when magazines and movie stars all look air-brushed, perfect and without any stretchmarks makes me feel better, because I am HUMAN and not a 2 dimensional perfect image (and neither are they, btw).


If I hide the part of my life that’s difficult and challenging, I’m pretending to be something I’m not, which is, Human.

embrace-the-glorious-mess-that-you-are-quote-canv

So to remind yourself, in the words of Liz Gilbert, “embrace the glorious mess that you are.”  Embrace it, love it, and bless it.  It’s you, and you’re HUMAN AF.

So, hi everyone! I am Marie and I am totally and completely Human AF.

Thanks to Peta Kelly for inspiring  this post!

#IamHumanAF #LightYourselfOnFire #ParentsPassionProject

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One Response to “#IamHumanAF”

  1. […] I’m Marie Ingrisano Isner and I am HumanAF.  I originally wrote a post a year ago about being #HumanAF and it felt like a great time to update […]

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